Be Your Own Valentine

Takeaway: It´s Valentine’s Day and the single ladies are trying not to look envious while the married stay-at-home moms converse about doctors and classes. Forget the fear and enjoy the holiday of a lifetime!

Are you single on Valentine’s Day? It may be the most dreaded day of the year for the partnerless but that´s the wrong point of view. Be your own Valentine! Be the best sweetheart you've ever had! No one will ever value and love you as much as you should yourself, and this year will be the greatest Valentine’s Day you've ever had!

1. Indulge

Love yourself! Take the day off if you can and if it´s not possible, see if you can get the boss to agree to let you leave even an hour early. Order your own flowers and make the day all about you. Your favourite meals, in your favourite pyjamas if you want to enjoy a day of rest, or in your favourite outfit if you want to hit the town and look fabulous. Do what you want to do - browse your favourite stores, hit the salon, see a ballgame, read your favourite book! Try out a new sex toy and pleasure yourself more than a partner ever could - women will enjoy the Big Boss G5 vibrator 'for women who like it big', and men can try out their wildest fantasies on a Life-Like Adult Dolls like the Pipedream Extreme Vibrating Ass.

2. Take Yourself to Dinner at Your Favourite Restaurant.

Make a reservation for one, dress to the nines, order a bottle of wine and your favourite menu item - don´t forget dessert! Do something naughty - by yourself! Sneak off to the bathroom and get off on your own with the WeVibe Tango X - which targets your sweet spot with pinpoint accuracy so that you won´t miss having a partner in the bathroom stall.

WeVibe Tango X Powerful Bullet Vibrator

3. Fall in love! Not with a partner, but with a new activity.

Sign up for a new class or go on an adventure you've never experienced. Try a cooking class or zip lining or sign up for a book club. Better yet, try a new fetish! Satisfyer V Ben Wa Balls are an enjoyable addition to enhanced pelvic floor strength and heightened orgasmic experiences. No one needs to be aware that a woman is packing., and men can sport a stretchy LELO Tor 2 Vibrating Cock Ring that expands to fit their girth.

4. Send out love! Random acts of kindness are great

We love them every day but definitely spread the feel-good vibe on this day of all days! Hold the door open for strangers. Pay the coffee behind you in line. Let the rushed driver into your traffic lane. But that´s not the only way you can spread the love (and lust) vibe - join a dating site, or if you have already, make a date! Whether you´re looking for a relationship or just the next fling, there are plenty of fellow singletons to make sure you aren´t alone! Make sure you´re stocked on the best condoms on the market, Lelo Hex Condoms, and your favourite lube - we like the JO Gelato Flavored Water-Based Lubricant.

5. Go out and party!

Contrary to what it feels like, you aren´t the only single person, and a crowded party or club on Valentine’s Day will be all the evidence you need to see that you aren´t alone and you should be perfectly happy. So hit the bar, find a hook-up, and reel him in. If you get lucky you might have your 'first' experience - who knows for what. Discover the playful aspects of each other with the amazing Fetish Fantasy Lover's Fantasy Kit. 

There are so many ways to celebrate the day, but the best way to do it. It´s with your best lover - you! Treat yourself and do only the things you love. You've never owed anything to anyone else and you are your best lover!

Article by Sara at JOUJOU