Just like breathing is vital in order to live, receiving an orgasm is a right that we all have. How great is it that we can give ourselves, and others, ultimate pleasure? As they say, the best things in life are free!
Sadly, however, there are many women worldwide who find it extremely difficult to achieve orgasm. This could be for a number of different reasons, such as the inability to relax and get outside of their head, physical ailments, or the use of certain medications.
Whatever the reason, we wholeheartedly agree that all women should have the luxury of enjoying powerful orgasms. So, we’ve consulted what is arguably the Internet’s most popular online forum, Reddit, to learn about how women who find it hard to climax, finally get off!
“Sometimes the sexiest thing in the world in a clear mind” – gcgould94
“I've discovered I need to read erotica while masturbating so my brain has something to focus on.” – caca_milis_
“I didn't enjoy sex until my ex because he was my first consented partner who didn't pressure sex and he helped me appreciate and understand my body instead of loathing it. For me, sex is more than an act so in order to get enjoyment out of it I have to be interested with my mind, heart, and body” – anonymous
“From my own personal experience, I've had a much much easier time when I masturbate less and when I stopped using intense vibrators. Now I tend to avoid putting any vibrator on my clit and I just use my fingers.” - panzershark
“For me, pressing my clit against his public bone and grinding while he's inside me does it every time. I also indulge in the sexiest images/words/thoughts that float through my mind.” – requited_requisite
“Know your body. What feels good? What doesn’t? Don’t be afraid to talk about it. Communication is important.” – Pantone877
“I was able to orgasm easier when I started doing core work, Pilates, and yoga-type exercise. Mostly the Pilates and core work. I all of a sudden, at the age of 40, could have them. When I stopped doing the Pilates and core work the ability stopped.” - ghoulishgirl
“Bullet vibes! They’re so small and discreet that they’re perfectly accessible for sex and easily handheld so you can use them during sex (just hold it to your clit and that’s it)!” - paulryansconscience
On top of these helpful tips and hints, here are a few cheeky sex toys that may just give you that toe-curling orgasm that you deserve.
Clitoral Stimulation Sex Toys
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This advanced clitoral massager features innovative Pleasure Air Technology that provides gentle suction and pulsating waves to stimulate the clitoris without direct contact. With 12 intensity levels and a Smart Silence feature that activates only when in contact with the skin, this toy ensures a pleasurable experience. Plus, it’s waterproof and rechargeable for ultimate convenience! |
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The We-Vibe Wand 2 is perfect for those seeking versatile stimulation. With its powerful vibrations and flexible head, it can easily reach all your favourite spots. Designed for both solo and partner play, this wand offers multiple intensity settings, making it a fantastic addition to your pleasure collection. |
G-Spot Vibrators
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The LELO Gigi 3 is elegantly designed for G-spot stimulation, featuring a soft, silky silicone exterior and a unique shape that allows for precise targeting. With multiple vibration settings and a powerful motor, this vibrator ensures intense pleasure and satisfaction. |
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Zalo King Powerthrust Vibrating Thruster The Zalo King is a luxurious G-spot vibrator designed with an elegant silhouette and powerful vibrations. Its contoured shape allows for precise stimulation, making it perfect for enhancing pleasure and achieving powerful orgasms. |
Bullet Vibrators
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This sleek bullet vibrator packs a punch with its powerful vibrations in a compact design. Ideal for discreet pleasure, the Dame Zig is perfect for use during intimate moments or solo play, making it a versatile addition to any toy collection. |
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Is a beautiful and magical bullet-style vibrator with 10 different powerful vibration and pulsation levels. It’s tapered for maximum pleasure, and also 100 percent waterproof. |
Well, it appears you have a bit of homework to do! But don’t worry, it’s the best kind of homework, so we hope you’ve been taking notes! But if you haven’t, don’t worry! Practical training is 100 percent allowed (and encouraged). Enjoy!
Article by:
Helena Lorimer, Sexual Health and Wellness Expert at JOUJOU
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