For open-minded, curious, and adventurous individuals–going beyond the norm is something that excites.
And while the classics, such as missionary-style sex, blowjobs, cunnilingus, fondling, and kissing, are still much to be appreciated and enjoyed, sometimes shaking things up can prove to be a real win in the bedroom.
Which is why today, we’re going to introduce you to the world of analingus… aka rimming, aka eating ass.
For some, it’s a fun and pleasure-fuelled activity. For others, it may be one of the last things that they’d ever want to do. But our motto is: don’t knock it ‘til you try it!
So, first off, the basics…
What is Rimming?
Rimming is the act of giving oral pleasure to the anus, and can encompass licking, kissing, sucking, and any other act that involves oral-to-anal.
And what may come as a surprise to you, is that many a couple are actively enjoying this form of foreplay all over the world.
This sex act sees no gender, no sexual orientation, and no shame. In fact, stimulating the anus can be a form of ecstasy that you may have never experienced.
This is because the anus has an extraordinary amount of sensitive nerve-endings that, when stimulated, can cause a feeling of sheer bliss that is different to what you may have experienced in the past.
And for those who’re wondering, rimming does not mean agreeing to anal sex. The two are separate entities.
Additionally, participating in rimming or anal sex does not have any homosexual tendencies. If it feels good, throw all pre-conceived notions out the window and enjoy it!
Is Rimming Hygienic?
Just like any other sex act, rimming does come with its own risks such as the spreading of bacteria and STI’s. But that shouldn’t put you off giving it a try, as there are ways to keep your self safe and clean.
Firstly, make sure to take a shower or bath beforehand–it’ll almost definitely be appreciated by the one doing the rimming. Second, you can use Pjur Med Toy & Skin Clean Spray and INITIMATE EARTH DEFENSE PROTECTION 120ML LUBRICANT on the area beforehand. If you’re worried about any health risks, using a dental dam is always an option.
You could also opt to use an anal douche or an enema beforehand, if you have some concerns about a possible ‘accident’.
At the end of the day, knowing your partner’s health status is also an important factor, and can give you some peace of mind too.
5 Tips for Mind-Blowing Rimming
Now that all the bits and pieces are out of the way, let’s get down to the how-to when it comes to rimming.
- Relax
The key to feeling good and receiving maximum pleasure, is to be comfortable and relaxed. Surely you know what it’s like to clench your butt hole… it’s not exactly a pleasant feeling. But being open to what you’re about to experience with a trusted partner will help you get there.
- A Hairy Situation
Don’t forget that pubic hair isn’t exactly exempt from the butt region! We all have a bit of hair action back there, and if you or your partner don’t feel great about that, a quick shave, wax, or trim is easy.
In actuality, the smoother it is, the more stimulation you’re able to experience.
- The Taste Test
If you’re not all that keen to taste something that isn’t quite favourable to you, you could always opt to use your favourite flavoured lubricant. This will not only allow you to enjoy your preferred flavour, but will also allow for an easier glide.
- It’s All About the Tease
Sure, it seems as though the hole is the prized-spot, but just like other forms of foreplay, it’s about building up the pleasure.
You can start by stimulating and touching the surrounding areas first. Tease, lick, tickle, kiss, blow on, or play with the cheeks sensually to get them relaxed and aroused.
You could also start with the taint area (perineum), which is the space between the balls/base of the vagina and the anus.
- Going for Gold
Then, when it comes to stimulating the anus, it’s simply an individual preference. Some like gentle licks, others like more pressure, circular motions, tickles, or even a bit of anal penetration with the tongue.
The trick is to experiment and practice to find that perfect blissful spot.
And for kinkier couples who enjoy using anal sex toys, you can incorporate a few cheeky items into your play time, such as the PETITE SENSATIONS BUBBLES for some stimulation, or the BVIBE PETITE RIMMING PLUG for a more penetrative experience.
Whatever floats your boat, do that! Because at the end of the day, receiving pleasure is one of those things that we all deserve!
Article by:
Helena Lorimer, Sexual Health and Wellness Expert at JOUJOU
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